Final Fantasy X-2 is ridiculous, and I cannot imagine that any Final Fantasy featuring male characters in the party would ever have used the 'dressphere' system. It does have its good points, though, and I'm not sure it deserves the scorn it attracts from a lot of the fandom (although it can't compare to Final Fantasy X in quality).

I really can't think of many older women having much of a presence in games at all.

imadra_blue has pointed out over here that characters' mothers in the Final Fantasy series are almost always absent or dead, which I thought was interesting and depressing. Heaven forbid we include any women old enough to have a teenage child.