oh this one i especially adore, for me i'm not sure if it's because it feels like a sort of layered puzzle or cake where you just uncover more stuff there and also just this sort of horror/sadness that can come from it

It has excellent potential for a lot of weird, complicated, painful feelings!

it's probably something that borders on codependency maybe...? or being stuck in small spaces and people being annoyed at each other

Both of these sound great to me! In... in fiction; I'm not signing up to experience this myself.